The power of yourself :Learning to Trust who you are

When was the last time external validation of my capability preceded stating my own belief about my capability? Within so many voices with so many expectations

And you know there's always so many opinions about whatever there is

How many times do I forget I always have a vote and it counts? It's not always the case of convincing myself to stand on the right side and only at all cost but rather the capability to go through a problem, accept my mistake to learn and truly own my verdict without needing the world to sanction me.

Self confidence never drops into one place all of a sudden, it's something constructed step by step:each time I respect and agreement with my self, each time I confidently express a limitation of mine,and each time I come to a decision without needing approval from the world .

Even during my mistakes; the fact of saying my strength should be proven doesn't mean my faults proves I can never achieve anything nor that I should think less of myself or be less capable as everything can teach me something for another next step.

My own strength again, it's so evident

With it i learned that no matter how many different kinds of people will ever surround my life with certain kind of expectations for me, I really don't have to become anything of whoever everyone wants me to be and still be valuable throughout my journey in life.

I think a constant comparison with everybody's life makes my accomplishments feel insignificant; that's what it feels like after a huge progress even though this the thing that should be recognized my own strengths, accepting all my imperfections and that only realizing that my surroundings will never go through what I could or will control.

And in the end,who should I listen and believe to be more than just myself.